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Dot in the Sky ([personal profile] dotinthesky) wrote2004-03-28 12:53 pm

After All Is Said And Done...

Most girls and women I know hate horror movies. I'd say almost all women don't like horror and make a point of never watching scary movies. It's also interesting to notice that almost all good scary movies (slashers included) have a female protagonist who goes through hell, is traumatized, sees all her friends/family die, before she manages to defeat the monster and survive. A lot of them end up in psychiatric wards afterwards.

My question: are most women turned off by horror because they feel, when watching these movies, that they are being called upon to relate to the main character and go through her ordeal?

In contrast, men don't seem to mind horror. I quite like a scary movie. But, if you look at the victim's list, men seem to die in the following manner:

- very quickly
- having sex with someone very hot
- saving the heroine/protagonist

And what about women who do enjoy watching horror? Are they smarter, or stronger, and can enjoy the genre without getting subconsciously sucked into it? Are they survivers themselves in real life, thus the movie parallels real traumas they suffered in life?

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-28 01:18 pm (UTC)(link)
ell, i like horror movies...and I was sexually molested...so maybe?

!!

[identity profile] i-am-scowling.livejournal.com 2004-03-28 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I love your icon; it owns mine, hehe. Mmm. Brilliant movie.

& who knows if Ollie's theory is right. Maybe being a survivor, or just being stronger, does make you tolerant to/ like horror movies. Or maybe not.

Re: !!

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2004-03-29 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
i'm sure it's very subjective, and also highly influenced by the culture you are raised in... I've been reading about "the gaze" and how spectators approach film. I was just curious because most horror movies seem to be about perpetuating cliches, specially of the "woman-survives-it-all" kind.

Re: !!

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-29 09:30 am (UTC)(link)
why thank you! I loved that movie so much!

And I think I just like trying to be scared...cause i am also obsessed with the paranormal

yes yes

[identity profile] i-am-scowling.livejournal.com 2004-03-29 12:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Me too. I love rollercoasters, & the idea of ghosts & spirits wandering among us.

Chills & goosebumps let us know that we're really living ;)

Re: yes yes

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-29 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
totally.

I go through phases where I'll be reading up on sirits constantly...and won't care about anything else!

boo!

[identity profile] i-am-scowling.livejournal.com 2004-03-31 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
That's awesome!

I need to get caught up on some reading about 'em as well - it's been a while.

Re: boo!

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-31 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
i have tons of links on my journal to some good ghosty sites

Re: boo!

[identity profile] i-am-scowling.livejournal.com 2004-04-04 05:15 pm (UTC)(link)
ghoststudies.com is spookily good!

Re: boo!

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-04-04 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
yes, i like that one a lot

Re: yes yes

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2004-03-30 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
If I die young, I'll come to your house at night and pull your toes when you sleep.

eek!

[identity profile] i-am-scowling.livejournal.com 2004-03-30 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Haha! Hey, I only said that I enjoyed the "idea" of it, not the reality ;)

Re: eek!

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2004-03-31 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
too late.

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2004-03-29 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
But when you watch them, what do you take from it? So you agree that the horror of a main female protagonist might parallel what you felt/feel?

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-29 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
no, i just like seeing if it can scare me

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2004-03-30 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
What does it take to scare you? Horror or mood? Jumps or psychological terror?

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-30 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
psychological...especially when i am stoned.... it is more the idea of what is there that frightens me...other than seeing some gore and blood

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-31 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
I think with a lot of people...especially when i see movies that scared the shit out of me when I was a kid now (like poltergeist) they look so lame with their effects

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2004-03-31 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
they seem to be getting scarier... or the directors better.

[identity profile] dilvalicious.livejournal.com 2004-03-31 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
or maybe it's just because technology is much better

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2004-03-31 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
so the monsters can be more gruesome.