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2024 in review


1. What did you do in 2025 that you'd never done before?



  • Turned 50.

  • Became a professional petsitter, with no fixed abode, moving from home to home across England's South East.

  • Saved tons of money and felt financially secure for the first time in a decade.

  • Rented a room as a lodger during periods when I didn't have a petsit.

  • Had a one-night stand with someone who I hadn't seen in 6 years.

  • Wanted to have a one-night stand with someone else who I also hadn't seen in 6 years, and when it didn't happen, my heart cracked open.

  • Started a pen pal project.

  • Hiked the Seven Sisters Cliffs in East Sussex as training for a charity challenge event.

  • Went teetotal on 15th February and only had a few drinks since then (mostly cheering people at their special occasions.)

  • Sang karaoke completely sober in a bar.

  • Helped a Brazilian family whose son was in prison in England, which included visiting him at HMP Belmarsh.

  • Entered the English sea for the very first time, at Selsey Beach, by invitation of the local outdoors swimming club.

  • Attended Trans Pride in Brighton. It was lovely and I'd love to attend it again in 2026.

  • Called the Samaritans so I could learn how to support a friend who was suicidal.

  • Visited regularly a care home for elderly people with dementia, where my dad thankfully found permanent housing.

  • Attended a goth/industrial daytime disco in Luton.

  • Started to use A.I. for work and a few personal projects.

  • Took a nighttime course on literary translation.


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As usual, the first few songs are bands I saw at Rockaway Beach in Bognor, the festival that basically carries on New Year's celebrations for a few more days.

The Pill - Woman Driver. Often I find that bands that play Rockaway are 6Music-famous by the end of the year, Self Esteem, Fat Dog, Fontaines DC. Ditto this band who've been on permanent play on the indier of the 6M shows. This song is a lot of sarcastic fun.

Arxx - Crying In The Car Wash. Fun fact, Brighton's Arxx wrote the songs for the BBC's Riot Women. This one is electro clashing with indie with a bit of a Robyn vibe.

Fontaines DC - It's Amazing To Be Young. In which Grian sings. Not necessarily successfully but let's give points for effort. I like the jangletastic semi-shoegaze of the backing. Can't really empathise with the sentiment, obvs, although "sometimes I wake up and it's dark" rings some bells.



Wet Leg - Catch These Fists. They're back! with a second album! We went to the launch event where we didn't get to meet the band (and anyway, we already met Josh (keyboards, guitar) outside Purezza in Brighton back in 2021) but did meet the Goblin on the album cover. Anyway, Catch These Fists is Rhian being a fighter not a lover as some loser tries to chat her up, with a bit of Franz Ferdinand's Do You Want To thrown in.

Pulp - Spike Island. They're back! It seemed obvious after their triumphant return to live gigs in '24 that they'd want a bit more Arabacus Pulpy action. I had thought they'd squeezed everything they could out of pop, but i surprised myself by humming this a lot back in April. I was wrestling with the coat-hanger, can you guess who won? is classique Jarv.

Chuck D - New Gens. He's back! Damn, he's weird. I loved this track, which I assumed was about Gen X loving the Zs. Makes a fucking change for an elder statesman to celebrate the younger generation. Rest in place and cowabunga.

D Meletis - Niamos. I got bored during the second series of Andor, but I liked the wedding episode which was basically the characters dancing to this song for 50 mins. We both liked it so much that we had it at our wedding (party), but not for 50 minutes straight.



Erika Vikman - Ich Komme. Erika was robbed. This saucy seaside postcard of a song should've beaten that Austrian simp.

Sissal - Hallucination. The second best sing at Euroviz.

Pulp - Got To Have Love. As above but more electro-gospely.

The Pill - Posh. More from the Isle of Wight's second best band. Proving that youngsters aren't all sitting at home drinking kombucha and talking about #fitnessgoals. "Red wine, red lips, sore tummy and a bag of chips. I've lost my drink!"

Wet Leg - CPR. Is it love or suicide? Rhian falls in love. I worry if she falls out of love there's going to be a car crash of a break up album.

Suede - Disintegrate. I heard this song on 6Music and was like, who is this? Then Brett's whine came in. Given that I spent much of the early '90s with a dislike of Suede that was only mollified when Oasis came on the scene, I was surprised that i liked it - probably because it's sounds like early '80s Cure.



CMAT - Take A Sexy Picture Of Me. We've had country, alt-country, folk-country, and now Welsh-country. This was pretty much Ciara's year and it's good that popstars can still come up through the OG gig economy rather than the Simon Cowell route.

Bater Dury - Schadenfruede. Like the Suede song, I heard this on the radio and was all kindsa excited until I Baxter's nasal drone kicked in, but i ended up really liking it, despite the mispronunciation of schadenfreude. After all, It's my favourite emotion, I know how to pronounce it.



Wig Wam - Do You Wanna Taste It? I wrote last year that once upon a time I got to know music from adverts, now it's theme tunes frm TV programmes. This was the theme tune from S1 of Peacemaker, my fave TV show of the year. I don't usually like '80s themed hair metal but combined with the awkward dancing form the cast, it was a grower.

Foxy Shazam - Oh Lord. I didn't think the theme tune to S2 could be better but I ended up with a permanent earworm. Keep on. Keeping on!

Coach Party - Disco Dream. Pretty much like The Pill: loud guitars, shouty vocals, like being 21 again. Another from the Isle of Wight - Wet Leg has started a Solent revolution! The music. The dancefloor. The lights.

Humour - Plagiarist. Like the 2000s never happened, I like the way it goes from 1991 style industrial hardcore to indie-melodic grunge.

Nation of Language - The Wall and I. [livejournal.com profile] picosgemeos and I saw these in November and given that I only knew one song (2017's Fractured Mind), I really loved them. They came off somewhere between The Postal Service and OMD, but unlike '80s electro bands they were active, not static behind synths and were very entertaining with some Napoleon Dynamite-esque boogieing. Also we had seats, which always helps.

Adrien Noelle, Nancy Wang - Sharevari. They also played this, which is a cover of the first techno song by A Number of Names from 1981. I prefer the cover.

Sleaford Mods & Big Special - The Good life. The Sleaford Mods mad-person-on-the-bus ranting broken up by the soulful crooning of Big Special.

Just Mustard - Endless Deathless. Let's finish the year with something that sounds like the Nightblooms why don't we?

The Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7rjWB3CLBP9280WDhH159b?si=ZPUEp87XS6Gvr1ACjGvJnw
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Louie's sweet little paw

Louie's sweet little paw

Wet Seat

Nov. 3rd, 2025 11:54 am
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London's underground system can be hit and miss with its seats.

London's underground system can be hit and miss with its seats.



‘It’s wet,’ a young woman warned my lover and I just as we reached the tube train’s only free seat. ‘Pass it along if I leave before you.’


At the next stop, a grandmother with her 4-year-old grandchild went for the soggy seat. I stopped them. She apologised profusely in Mandarin while the child translated my warning.


‘I nearly brought sticky notes,’ I told my lover while I rummaged through my backpack for paper. He fished a black marker pen out of his, a torn journal page and voilà: someone’s trousers were saved.

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A lazy Sunday morning with Louie.

A lazy Sunday morning with Louie.

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Studying French in the guesthouse’s reception area. Photo by the author.

Studying French in the guesthouse’s reception area. Photo by the author.



Mom coughs in the guesthouse’s living room, our cleaning lady Jéssica moves through mom's bedroom, and the maritacas make their usual racket in the garden.


I'll venture out later with Merlin – Cornell University’s bird app – to capture their songs and log them in. Yesterday, the app recorded a bird I'd never heard before—just the one. I'd been hearing its song from the garden, just outside my office window, plus the wood tapping of a woodpecker; a toucan too. Eventually I stepped outside but never spotted the mysterious bird; my only proof of its passage was its song on the app. 


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It was a beautiful, sunny day in Camberwell on Sunday 2nd of February, 2025. Clothes and sheets hung out to dry from balconies on the tower block across the way, and from time to time an Overground train sped by.


Messalina sat on our balcony’s ledge, light shining on her soft coat, meowing threats at pigeons that deigned to fly too close. The shadow of a large, bare tree played against one of the tower block’s sides. I took the tree's picture and searched Google using its “lens” feature, to see if it could identify its type. All Google could find were examples of the brand-new condos erected behind the tree.


I have two works in progress – horror novels – and if I were a sensible writer, I’d have worked on them on that beautiful Sunday, or put my mind to writing a new short story or drafting my latest Substack newsletter.


Instead, I chose to do a deep clean of the bedroom. First, I took everything underneath and around the bed out of the room and lined them up in the corridor. Then I wiped surfaces, swept dust balls, vacuumed corners and finally mopped the whole floor.


Once finished, I opened windows across the flat and lay on the bare mattress, my knees pressed to my chest, my lower back stretched loose.


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June 10th: Do you revise and add more plot if you feel your story is too short?

Not at all. I add or subtract as I see fit, if it feels like there's more to be told. Usually, I have an excess of material and it's more a question of cutting back and polishing until I have the final piece.

June 11th: Is it okay to use a comma before a dependent clause? Or anywhere else?

I had to look this up. You apparently shouldn't really use it before a dependent clause if the clause appears at the end of the sentence. If the sentence starts with the dependent clause, then you can use the comma after it. But, for me personally, don't worry about these rules. Do whatever you want. If your piece has a strong mood and interesting use of language, you'll have me hooked.

June 12th: Which social media channels do you use as a writer? Which gives you the best engagement?

I go back and forth on this one. I currently update friends on Facebook, Mastodon, Threads, Substack, Livejournal and Instagram. Mastodon tends to get the most engagement (because of the writing-related hashtags). Livejournal gets sometimes the deepest conversations on writing, and Facebook the strongest cheers (I only have 60 connections, but they are all close friends).
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8. Do you agree with Michael Moorcock: "ignore all proffered rules and create your own, suitable for what you want to say?"

Yes, but only after you've become familiar with the rules. If you're going to create your own rules, do it for good reasons.

9. How do you select ideas from all the ones floating around?

I don't think too much; I'm a go-with-the-flow kinda guy, open to receive, though if an idea keeps popping up that's usually how I know what to work on next.
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7. What do you do first when you start a new writing project?

I pour everything down on paper, as much as possible, without worrying about coherence, point of view, syntax. Just write and write, getting past the "internal editor", until I have a good solid chunk of material down. Once I'm done, I let it sit for a bit then treat it as a rough outline.

I used to hate revising but it's now my best friend. From that initial Big Bang, many galaxies are born and then die.

This method was very much inspired by Wendy Erskine’s interview with Hattie Crisell for the “In Writing” podcast.
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5. Have you ever dreamed about characters in your work?

Very rarely. The few times it's happened, I've tried to incorporate the scene into my work, almost as if it were a talisman, and fully aware that it might not survive later edits.

6. Have you queried agents for traditional publishing? How did it go?

Never. My only experience has been with editors of literary mags and lit awards. Maybe I still don't feel grown up enough to talk to a literary agent.
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4. How do you handle highly intimate scenes?

It varies from story to story. My two current works in progress are horror novels which contain intimate scenes. Sometimes they are there to help the reader connect with characters and care for them, sometimes they are there to maximise horror. I try to avoid explicit content, unless there's a point to it.

I'd also add that they don't come easy to me, and I don't naturally gravitate towards them. I prefer things implied.
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3. Should books include a content warning?

For me, personally, no. But that's probably because I'm Gen X: I grew up without any content warning, anywhere. I find it a bit weird now if a book tells me what I'm expected to find inside, going as far as give away major plot points.

Also, nowadays, there's so much info online about books, including content warnings, that I don't see the point of having it on the book itself. Just do some online research before your purchase.
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2. Do you have any regrets as a writer, or do you never look back?

Never look back: I don't believe in free will and don't think I could have reached this point in my life without all the successes and failures that came before, or done anything different that would have made me a better writer. It is what it is, and I'm glad of what I've learned and what I can do today with my skills.

Writing nowadays involves a lot of compassion for myself and detachment from outcomes.
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Intro and update: introduce yourself and/or update us on your writing journey since your last intro.

Friends call me Ollie. Nearly-49-years-old gay men living in a small guesthouse in the Brazilian countryside, caring for a parent with Alzheimer's. Literary translator and fiction writer in my spare time.

I've been translating my first novel into English these past few months, called "Second Identity". Work on a horror novel set in London will resume after it's done.
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Victoria Park in summer

A young woman on the sidewalk collecting wild berries that grew next to the travellers’ compound.

A young Polish man with construction site scars on his hands and arms.

A man in his thirties riding with exertion his bike over the bridge that crosses the A12 from Hackney Wick to Victoria Park, sunburns down his calves.

Victoria Park in late afternoons, filled with shirtless men kicking a ball, women lying on the grass, couples too close together in the shade.

An open balcony door, wind stirring the leaves but not cooling anything.



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Winning

May. 25th, 2024 09:50 am
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This is weird but... I appear to have won that LJ hashmob competition?! I honestly wasn't even trying. Just wanted to participate as I thought it would be fun... and I love a LJ questionnaire!

I've had a couple of friends from the UK visiting these past few weeks and I spent 5 days with them in São Paulo, which has been incredibly fun and re-energising. I'll post a proper update soon.
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1. LJ appeared in April 1999, the year when I… had just started my first serious long term relationship, with Kevin, and was approaching the end of my time in Montréal. That year, I completed my BA in History and English Lit at Concordia University and started an intensive french course in McGill. Little did I know that just round the corner was a friend I'd make who'd introduce me to LJ.


2. As a child, I wanted to become a… private detective. I fell in love with Agatha Christie when I was 8 and devoured all her books, plus any adjacent authors. If there was a crime and a mystery, I was hooked. I even started investigating "crimes" in the building I lived in São Paulo, roping in friends as my assistants. Then I started writing crime fiction; my detective's name was Mr Clark and there was usually a very high body count behind him by the time he figured out who was the murderer.


3. My favorite school subject was… Portuguese. I loved books, lived in the school's library, and couldn't be happier whenever the teacher gave us a creative writing exercise. 


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I signed up to Casa Guilherme de Almeida’s esteemed literary translation programme, Programa Formativo para Tradutores Literários, on Tuesday 12th March 2024. Three weeks later, I e-mailed them to request a full refund.

‘That’s fine,’ they said. ‘But may we know the reason?’

‘I thought the course would have about 30 people. There’s over 100.’

It was the first time since the pandemic that Casa Guilherme de Almeida offered their 6-month course fully online. ‘Maybe they got a little too excited with the amount of money they’d make,’ someone suggested in the students-only WhatsApp group we’d set up.

Classes were held twice a week on Google Meet, plus workshops on Saturdays. The programme’s professors were academics at the top of their game, who’d translated Joseph Conrad, James Joyce, and others into Brazilian Portuguese. During classes, one hundred little windows opened up across Brazil, North America and Europe, Google Meet’s chat box on fire with student questions and comments. One professor confessed she wouldn’t be able to look at everyone’s work; another couldn’t get through all her presentation slides, too distracted by our chatter.

Dissent grew in the WhatsApp group: ‘six months of lectures and most students won’t be able to get a word in!’ We all agreed, though, that the professors were lovely.

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I forgot to mention LJ in my last post, but it's worth bringing it up as well.

I now have only 5 active friends here! It's such a change from the earlier years, when I had over 300 active friends. I've been reading my LJ chronologically (currently in 2009) and we all posted so often back then, and there were so many comments...

I've been thinking: with the advent of A.I., if there was some way for Livejournal to incorporate it and give us a functionality that translated posts and comments, maybe that would open a new world for us? We could start connecting with the other side of LJ, and vice versa?

That's my tip for you, LJ Development Team!

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