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Dot in the Sky ([personal profile] dotinthesky) wrote2015-07-09 10:10 pm

The day my grandmother passed away

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Two days ago, I left for work at 8am (as usual) and walked to the nearest train station to catch the Overground to North London. On my way, I was surprised to find a white and black cat laid out in the middle of the sidewalk. I stopped for a few seconds to pet it. It didn't budge when I stood up and walked away.

In the train, I read a chapter from Rowena Wiseman's novel Repeat After Me. The main character, a teenager called Ivy, had just discovered her grandmother was going to stay with her for a few days - taking care of her while her parents were in America. Granddaughter and grandmother had started off on the wrong foot but, as the chapters progressed, had begun to appreciate each other's company.

Later that same day, on my way home, I found the cat still laid in the middle of the sidewalk. It looked like it was waiting for someone. I stopped again to pet it.

In the evening, while watching an interview with Alan Moore and his wife on YouTube, discussing their collaborative work Lost Girls, I had a quick look at Facebook and found out from an aunt that my grandmother had passed away a few hours before.

My grandmother's wake and funeral took place yesterday, 8th July 2015, in Londrina, Brasil. She was 89 years old.

I called my mother yesterday evening and she told me her mother's death had been very sudden. She had had lunch on Tuesday and gone to the bedroom to take her customary nap. The way she laid down, she stayed; she never woke up.

[identity profile] norabird.livejournal.com 2015-07-09 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry Ollie.

[identity profile] picosgemeos.livejournal.com 2015-07-10 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you darling.

[identity profile] rockingthemike.livejournal.com 2015-07-10 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
i just want to offer my condolences to you again ollie. it sounds like she went peacefully in her sleep and no one could ask for better given the circumstances. *hugs*

[identity profile] picosgemeos.livejournal.com 2015-07-10 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
Indeed, she went very peacefully. She was hospitalised beforehand, she'd been struggling with her health for a year now, so I can't help feeling it was her time to go and she's in a better place right now.

[identity profile] olamina.livejournal.com 2015-07-10 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
My condolences. I love that you connect to the magical stuff...it's out there

[identity profile] picosgemeos.livejournal.com 2015-07-10 06:15 am (UTC)(link)
It is indeed! Thank you for your thoughts. xx

[identity profile] shuffle81.livejournal.com 2015-07-10 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences Ollie. Big hug!

[identity profile] picosgemeos.livejournal.com 2015-07-13 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you V. x

[identity profile] arafel1.livejournal.com 2015-07-13 08:01 am (UTC)(link)
I am sorry for your loss. Big hug.

[identity profile] picosgemeos.livejournal.com 2015-07-13 08:17 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. x