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dotinthesky) wrote2005-03-03 09:55 am
dotinthesky) wrote2005-03-03 09:55 am
Cat Amongst Sleepy Pigeons & Hopes for Bahia
I woke up at 8 a.m. to take Tete for a walk. When we were coming back, we ran into the maid. She was on her way to the bakery to buy some bread and milk for me. And when I finished my breakfast, she was startled that I wanted to wash my own dishes. I'm still not used to being waited around - being away from Brasil does that to me.
Having a maid in Brasil is very common. We have Leia, the woman who comes in to do little jobs and the cooking (and who went to the bakery this morning); Maria do Carmo, who takes care of Nicholas (it would be preferable if she were a proper nurse, but we can't afford that); and Fatima, who comes over once a week for a complete cleansing of the apartment: she tackles carpets, bathrooms, windows, balcony, everything.
During Fatima's last visit, 100 reais went missing (that's about 20 pounds). There were only three people in the apartment at the time: myself, Leia, and Fatima. I obviously didn't take the money, and I also know Fatima didn't do it (our family has known her, and her family, for almost thirty years.) So it must have been Leia, though we can't prove it. Now, everytime she is around, I feel uncomfortable. The way she talks, the way she tries to suck up to us. My mother asked me to start locking my wardrobe (where I've hidden my euros) whenever I go out because she cannot be trusted.
It's horrible when the mood in the house is spoiled this way. We try to rationalize the behaviour of the person (she stole because she needed the money urgently, or because she felt we owned so much more than her and could afford to do without the money.) But you know what? It's not right. Our family isn't like the many rich in Brasil who have gained their money through corruption. My dad actually worked from the bottom to get where he was, and everything we have was bought with the money from his work. My mom doesn't seem too bothered by this latest event, mainly because her entire life has been an ongoing history of maids that steal, cheat and lie. She even had all of her most precious jewellery stolen by one of them, not to mention the many others who have caused all kinds of trouble in our house (remind me one day to tell you the story of Geni).
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My brother and I are no longer going to Natal, or staying in that hotel. Thanks a lot to whoever cast a olho gordo (fat eye) on us! I'm calling all sorts of travel agencies today to try to secure a trip to Bahia. But I'm not telling you anymore until everything is 100% for sure. Bragging about holidays only leads to disasters.
Having a maid in Brasil is very common. We have Leia, the woman who comes in to do little jobs and the cooking (and who went to the bakery this morning); Maria do Carmo, who takes care of Nicholas (it would be preferable if she were a proper nurse, but we can't afford that); and Fatima, who comes over once a week for a complete cleansing of the apartment: she tackles carpets, bathrooms, windows, balcony, everything.
During Fatima's last visit, 100 reais went missing (that's about 20 pounds). There were only three people in the apartment at the time: myself, Leia, and Fatima. I obviously didn't take the money, and I also know Fatima didn't do it (our family has known her, and her family, for almost thirty years.) So it must have been Leia, though we can't prove it. Now, everytime she is around, I feel uncomfortable. The way she talks, the way she tries to suck up to us. My mother asked me to start locking my wardrobe (where I've hidden my euros) whenever I go out because she cannot be trusted.
It's horrible when the mood in the house is spoiled this way. We try to rationalize the behaviour of the person (she stole because she needed the money urgently, or because she felt we owned so much more than her and could afford to do without the money.) But you know what? It's not right. Our family isn't like the many rich in Brasil who have gained their money through corruption. My dad actually worked from the bottom to get where he was, and everything we have was bought with the money from his work. My mom doesn't seem too bothered by this latest event, mainly because her entire life has been an ongoing history of maids that steal, cheat and lie. She even had all of her most precious jewellery stolen by one of them, not to mention the many others who have caused all kinds of trouble in our house (remind me one day to tell you the story of Geni).
My brother and I are no longer going to Natal, or staying in that hotel. Thanks a lot to whoever cast a olho gordo (fat eye) on us! I'm calling all sorts of travel agencies today to try to secure a trip to Bahia. But I'm not telling you anymore until everything is 100% for sure. Bragging about holidays only leads to disasters.
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karen walker-ish
brincadeira
Re: karen walker-ish
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*casts an olho gordo on Leia*
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It's true that the holiday here in Londrina is lovely already... but it would be nice if we managed to see some sea! Hey, how about you email me your postal address so I can send you a postcard? olliefern @ yahoo. co. uk
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Email sent already!
*runs downstairs to wait for the postman*
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I hope it turns up randomly under a book or something....
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But, as soon as I write it (and hopefully we will still know each other on Livejournal!), I will send you a signed copy.
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Mas qdo ela estava de lincença por causa do filho então recém nascido dela (q tem uns 17 anos agora), contratamos uma outra empregada q era um terror: roubou minhas bonecas pra filha dela, e sumiu com roupas da minha mãe tb. Qdo minha mãe chegou em casa e pegou ela experimentando as roupas dela, foi a gota d'água e ela foi despedida. Lembro-me q ela era mto antipática, eu não gostava dela...
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Não sabia que a vida é tão diferente no Brasil do que aqui na Bretanha ou em Portugal...
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Morar no Reino Unido deve ser mágico!
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Gosto muito do Reino Unido, mas não da Escócia, onde estou eu! =o( Eu preferiria morar em Londres! Adoro aquele lugar!!
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Ahh, Londres é incrivelmente incrível... Estive durante algum tempinho em Newcastle em 2003 e passei alguns dias em Londres. Tb adoro aquele lugar!
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Eu ia muitas vezes a Londres até o meu pai voltou à Madeira, hoje em dia não vou tanto assim como antes! =o(
A minha melhor amiga é de Newcastle! O seu sotaque é muito fixe! =oD LOL
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Agora bem quero que me conte vc a estória da Geni...lol.
É como uma das séries brasileiras que vejo na tele de vez em quando!
Boa sorte com a viagem! O olho gordo não foi culpa minha! =oP
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A historia da Geni fica para outra vez...
Nao sei porque minha mae nao manda ela embora. Acho que porque minha mae volta logo para o sitio entao nao quer esquentar a cabeca procurando uma nova empregada. Logo logo a Leia vai ficar sem emprego.
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Ooooooo, enquanto vc está no Brasil, pode gravar algumas séries pra mim por favooor? =oD
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troubles
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Will try again now.
Also, will take photos tomorrow and post them so you can feel some heat from the laptop screen. :)
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e tb esse cancelamento da viagem :/
q chato...
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