No No Notorious

[dotinthesky]

I don't know why some people have added me to their friend's list. They never reply to any comments I leave on their journals, they never read my journal (because if you never ever comment on my journal then that's the obvious conclusion) so why?

Why?

Are they after some flimsy medal for "Has Most Friends in LJ"? Do they think their views will be more valid if people think they are popular? God! What a joke! Please, if you are reading this and you are one of these people, do the decent thing and take me off your friend's list. I hate poseurs.

Thanks

Comments

[dilvalicious.livejournal.com]

yeah, that annoys me as well...hence most of my post remaining friends only...

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

i don't want to go friends only because I know people who check my journal and don't have an LJ account. so...

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[dilvalicious.livejournal.com]

so make an entry with the handles of the people you want to remove you then...embarrass them!!!!

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

oh! you can do that?

(shit, my blonde period is refusing to go away...)

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[dilvalicious.livejournal.com]

well, you can do whatever you want, right?

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

but they don't comment in my journal anyways, so it's not like they would ever find out I barred them!

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[dilvalicious.livejournal.com]

true

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

maybe I should just ask them to take me off their list.

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[dilvalicious.livejournal.com]

why not??? I should do the same

[rina82.livejournal.com]

i don't get it either. i got a few on my friends list, so i thought on deleting them. and i hate the ones with no update at all.
i don't really care about who got the most friends in lj thingy. it's not like you got a prize or whatever.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

I know! for me, LJ is a good chance to meet people to share ideas, music, whatever... i've met so many cool people but i don't understand the ones that are here just to "get numbers"

:o/

[thebeatnick.livejournal.com]

You got me listening to quite a bit more Radiohead.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

reallly??

;o)

what kind of music do you usually like?

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[thebeatnick.livejournal.com]

Well, I like all types of rock and techno. Getting into classical too. Never really listened to Radohead much.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

i'm not too into techno, but i've also found myself getting into classical.

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[thebeatnick.livejournal.com]

I have a few friends going to be music majors in university and they have me on classical music now.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

which composer is your favourite? or piece?

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[thebeatnick.livejournal.com]

I love anything by Rachmaninoff although I have a new obsession with Dorvak and his Slovanain Dances. How about you?

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

hmm! I don't know those two... i should check them out. I love some of Schuberts (spelled right?) and I have two cds at home by the Kronos Quartet which are quite fun (one is on Medieval chamber music and the other is on Mexican classical music...)

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[thebeatnick.livejournal.com]

What is Mexican classical music like?

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

i guess it's classical in the sense of being very typical of the country... but with strings and weird drums and... well, i'll find out the cd title and let you know. It's a brilliant album! If you have a HMV near you, maybe they'll let you listen to it at the store.

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[thebeatnick.livejournal.com]

I'm not quite sure what an HMV is, but I guess it's some kind of music store. I'm sure I'd like it. My mom too. She and I are all into the Mexican music.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

The album is called Nuevo, and the group "Kronos Quartet"

I seriously recommend it... it's brilliant! I'm sure Virgin Megastore or some other store like that will carry it.

;o)

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[thebeatnick.livejournal.com]

thanks:-)

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

if you ever get it, let me know what you think.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

hmm! I don't know those two... i should check them out. I love some of Schuberts (spelled right?) and I have two cds at home by the Kronos Quartet which are quite fun (one is on Medieval chamber music and the other is on classic Mexican music...)

[hruquet.livejournal.com]

Duran Duran

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

:o)

[soopahiro.livejournal.com]

The thing that annoys me more is when I add someone, comment to them, etc, but they never add me. I can respect only wanting your friends in your journal...but, jeez, is it so bad to meet new people?

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

yeah... why can't they at least reply, say something like "erm, i'm happy with the friends I have..." I don't know.

People are lazy and forgetful and I'm feeling that maybe my outburst was a bit of an overreaction. After all, it's just "cyberspace" and things don't have to be so rigid. But I will still get annoyed if someone adds me and makes no effort to communicate... I'm not a number for someone to boost their friend's list.

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[soopahiro.livejournal.com]

You refuse to be used and abused.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

only if I'm the one calling the shots.

[thenextlife.livejournal.com]

There are some people who I have on my friends list to which I don't comment on their entries ;-)

Oops. But yeah, I like "active" friends.

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

it's just that... i guess I don't understand when someone just adds you but doesn't introduce themselves... it makes it more impersonal when, I feel, LJ is so good because you can get intimate with people.

Oh well, I realize some people don't have a lot of time to use LJ (like me) so i won't be hard on anyone.

don't monkey wit my bizness

[somekindaangel.livejournal.com]

I hope you don't mean me, cuz I enhoy reading your entries, and I try and respond to peoples comments though it takes me days sometimes :-)

Re: don't monkey wit my bizness

[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

no i dont mean yoU! i just mean people who added me but never ever introduced themselves, said anything, or reply if I post in their journals... I think we have exchanged enough stuff about Moz to make you a friend.

;o)

[roguejournal.livejournal.com]

ollie..ollie...
you know * giggles*...i have no idea why i have you on my list..* giggles* ...i don't even like you!!!

(evil laugh)

of course i'm joking!!!
You know why i have you on my list!!!!!!!!

♥

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

you are one of my bestest friends... I would be heart broken if you weren't my friend anymore.

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[roguejournal.livejournal.com]

this will never happen....you'll never get rid of me, even if you beg for it!!!!

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

hahaha!

guess what, i might be going back to Brazil earlier than expected. It's not because of a good thing: Nicholas needs a back operation in Sao Paulo and my mom needs someone to be with her... so I'm thinking I might go.

Maybe I'll see you?

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[roguejournal.livejournal.com]

Maybe???
You'll certainly see me!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm glad you are coming sooner...but sad about Nicholas!! hope he's fine....

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[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

i hope so too... i'm going to write to my mom today and see what she says


♥

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[roguejournal.livejournal.com]

okay!!!
Let me know what she said!!!

Re-post - fussy about spelling as ever!

[dawnage.livejournal.com]

Maybe they're reading your journal but too shy to comment - after all, you're pretty scary! ;p

Re: Re-post - fussy about spelling as ever!

[commonpeople.livejournal.com]

ahh!

am I?

:oP

(i'm the sweetest gay boy west of Greenwich...)