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Dot in the Sky ([personal profile] dotinthesky) wrote2006-10-01 10:04 am

Kirsten and Nick Tie the Knot

After a night of heavy drinking, I always sleep little and wake up with the chickens. I'm nursing a cup of tea and a total eclipse of my brain cells (probably dead from a concoction of red wine, Stella Artois, champagne and vodka & cokes.) But if that's the price to pay for a great Saturday night, for making the most of a wedding celebration, then so be it. I hope those goddamn brain cells never come back.

My mom sent me two Best of 80s CDs inside a metal box as a birthday gift (which I collected from the post office yesterday). They've been making me company this morning while Kevin sleeps away his hangover and London slowly wakes up to a bright Sunday. Some of the songs -- A-ha's "Take on Me" and Simple Minds' "Don't You (Forget About Me)" -- remind me of the dancefloor last night (which for some unusual reason I didn't visit). It was the kind of dancefloor any wedding party drifts to after the toasts and meals are over: parents dancing to 60s rock, rockers letting their hair down to 70s glamrock and girls lipsynching to their favourite 80s electropop.

I haven't been to many weddings in my life -- this was the third in the past 6 years -- but it was obvious from the start that Nick and Kirsten's knot-tieing was going to be a special night. Kevin & I unfortunately missed the wedding ceremony, but we caught up with the retinue as they arrived at the Trafalgar Tavern, an old-style pub in Greenwich with grand rooms and balconies that face the Thames and Canary Wharf. I imagine the bride and groom will remember little of their wedding day, because of all the stress of preparation and of having to sail through such a special night. I must, therefore, tell them it was a wonderful party, filled with great food, conversations, speeches and well-behaved children. Thank you Nick and Kirsten for inviting us!

Although everyone claimed their table to be the liveliest, I really think ours won out in the end. Not only did our conversation naturally veer from Axl Roses to oral sex in the space of minutes but we also threw napkins and chocolate wrappers at nearby tables -- the perfect drunk juveniles. I was happy Kevin finally got to meet so many of my LJ friends; hopefully he'll feel less shy about coming out in the future because he'll know he is also welcome. It was also lovely to see people again I haven't spoken to in ages, and just generally enjoy their company. Great conversations were had in the following topics: moths that survive cleavages, the benefits of tango dancing, the avoidance of controversial people, bumsex & bananas, German food in Greece, the death of dance music, shoes that wreck your feet, going back to university as a mature student and the joys of continental Europe. I'm sure more was discussed, but those conversations are probably gone with the brain cells.

Next Saturday we have a Trad Goth theme party to attend, and a tea & scones gathering on Sunday... can't wait! The busier your weekend, the slower Monday arrives.

[identity profile] theyare45.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 09:41 am (UTC)(link)
wow, rad. i have yet to attend a cool wedding.

xo, math+

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 11:52 am (UTC)(link)
i have yet to attend a cool wedding.

How come? Bad experiences in the past or you just went to weddings you weren't into?

[identity profile] theyare45.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 11:57 am (UTC)(link)
oh, i mean, i'm pretty young [23], so most of the weddings i've been to have been for, say, my much older cousins or stuff like that. nobody in my immediate peer group has tied the knot yet. there was nothing specifically wrong with the weddings i've been to, but none prompted me to think 'oh that was awesome and i was at the best table' and etc.

actually, when i was... 15?... two of my cousins got married at my house, to each other. it was kind of awesome just because it was at my house, which was just a normal suburban L.A. house, not tons of room or anything, and plus two of my cousins were getting married! wild. but it was nothing special in terms of hanging out. most of the crowd was like off-duty cops [the groom was a Marine].

xo, math+
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[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 11:52 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, at least it wasn't a spider! I wonder if the moth managed to survive its flight after leaving your sleeve and flying towards the Thames.

Lovely to see you too... come visit us again soon!
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[personal profile] redcountess 2006-10-01 01:31 pm (UTC)(link)
We were at the ceremony, but I was unable to last until the evening reception, so we had a few drinks with friends down for the wedding, and then went home about 6. I'm sorry I missed you, I would have loved to have met Kevin!

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Hopefully we'll get a chance to hang out soon.

[identity profile] kevyn-kronycles.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 03:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, wedding drinking...that was me a couple weeks ago...sounds like you had a really fun time

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Very good time. I highly recommend wedding drinking to everyone. ;-)

[identity profile] tete-glitter.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, que ótimo que vocês se divertiram horrores!!
Já fui à 3 casamentos de amigos meus, e os dois últimos foram realmente excelentes!!! É muito bom ficar conversando sobre tudo com pessoas que você já conhece e gosta e com pessoas novas que a gente acaba conhecendo em casamentos :)

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Realmente, eh uma coisa muito boa, que eu gostaria de fazer mais vezes. Sao nestas horas, quando todos estao vestidos em suas melhores roupas, muita bebida passando pela mesa, que eu consigo me descontrair completamente e esquecer os estresses da semana. Varias fotos foram tiradas; vou pedir permissao para colocar elas neste journal.

[identity profile] kibean16.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 03:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, that sounds like a great time! You have to tell us some of the observations made during the "bumsex and bananas" portion of the night.

And Stella Artois and vodka/cokes? Brutal.

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
The bumsex and bananas conversation happened when we had left the party and were trying to catch a bus homoe. I was helping a friend, who was a little worse for wear, and she kept saying Kevin & I were going to have some bumsex, interspered with requests to stop somewhere for kebabs or bananas.

Mixing drinks is bad and I shold know this by now. I'll be sticking with the spirits or the wine only next time around.

[identity profile] phyrephly.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Dear Ollie,
you lead a charmed life. i am happy for you.
love,
bella! :]

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Dear Bella,

I'm happy to hear from you. If my charmed life were a cake, I'd give the biggest slice to you.

Love,
Me.

boo! I FOUND YOU!

[identity profile] talia99.livejournal.com 2006-10-01 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)
ollie - happy belated! i found you... heading to london oct 24 for the night and then back nov 3-5. might go visit some friends in the midlands one night and off to spain for the week in between! yippee! hopefully we can see eachother!

happy belated, libra boy.

talia xo

[identity profile] lelapin.livejournal.com 2006-10-02 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
you woke up with the chickens? is this an english expression? i've never heard that before!

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-02 07:05 am (UTC)(link)
I think it might be brasilian. ;-)

It means that I woke up really early.

[identity profile] saint-narcissus.livejournal.com 2006-10-02 08:01 pm (UTC)(link)
"up with the chickens" is also used in middle america, at least minnesota, where I originated from.

[identity profile] commonpeople.livejournal.com 2006-10-03 07:29 am (UTC)(link)
Must be quite common in rural regions, worldwide, that raise chickens.