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Every year, I keep a playlist on Spotify (and from 2024 onwards, on Deezer) where I add new and old songs I've fallen in love with. I like giving them an album cover as well as a name. This year, I called it 23 Good Eggs because I went to visit an old friend in Brighton, a few days before she gave birth to her first child, and she described every person in her life as "a good egg". I just loved the expression and thought - all these songs are good eggs to me.

The album's cover features my friend Vini, who was like a father figure during my first month back in the UK, taking care of me, feeding me, taking me for walks, bike rides and swims - generally making sure I was OK. I snapped this pick in Hackney Downs one morning, just as he had bought us some coffees and pastries for our breakfast.

I narrowed the playlist's 92 tracks down to 10 songs released in 2023 which I love, in no particular order.Read more... )
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Normal PeopleNormal People by Sally Rooney

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Being called “the Voice of a Generation” can be the kiss of death for any artist. Look at Suede, the early 90s “Best New Band”. Look at Zadie Smith, best new writer when “White Teeth” came out (which she now says she can’t even read as it makes her cringe). Look at countless others that were propped up by the press only to be knocked down later on.

I hope Rooney can weather the moniker. I came to Sally Rooney’s “Normal People” completely oblivious to what it was about. It was only after finishing it I saw the “Voice of a Generation” headlines. I heard there was a BBC series, and I’d seen a still image with a young man and woman; my brain assumed it was some kind of romantic comedy ala Jane Austen. It’s as unlike Austen as anything and, in fact, it’s much closer to early Bret Easton Ellis (another “Voice of a Generation”).

Some critics have suggested “Normal People” is a piece of autofiction (it takes place in the university Rooney attended, the characters are her age, etc.) There’s an immediate closeness to the two central characters, Marianne and Connell, brought on by a narrative heavy on dialogue and sparse on details, as we meet them in their late teens and follow their friendship until their mid-20s. The story starts in their small hometown in West Ireland, and then moves to Dublin, where they both attend the same university.

Like Easton Ellis, and unlike Austen, peripheral characters are mostly sketches, apart from Connell’s mom, who works as a cleaner for Marianne’s family and who is beautifully rendered. I also felt that Connell was perfectly realised – that Rooney got inside the mind of a particular type of male with great success. Marianne, on the other hand, felt badly developed. I didn’t buy into her masochistic streak and couldn’t understand why her family abused her. Towards the end, she comes dangerously close to Manic Pixie Dream Girl territory.

“Normal People” is a good read – a sort of “damaged” love story – but it’s a continent I’ve sailed away from some time ago (I’m now in my mid-forties). Although it was interesting to be reminded of the kind of self-absorption all 20-year-olds are prone to, I was also glad to no longer inhabit that land. It’s a world of shifting sand, where you are a loser one day and popular the next, where you want to hear the sound of your own voice so you can better understand yourself through the reaction of others. Self-absorbed people are the least interesting people of all, but Rooney softens these characters by making them both fatherless and deeply sensitive about the shames they carry. Like the Ireland they inhabit, it’s as sunny a read as you’d expect.

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