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Every year, I keep a playlist on Spotify (and from 2024 onwards, on Deezer) where I add new and old songs I've fallen in love with. I like giving them an album cover as well as a name. This year, I called it 23 Good Eggs because I went to visit an old friend in Brighton, a few days before she gave birth to her first child, and she described every person in her life as "a good egg". I just loved the expression and thought - all these songs are good eggs to me.

The album's cover features my friend Vini, who was like a father figure during my first month back in the UK, taking care of me, feeding me, taking me for walks, bike rides and swims - generally making sure I was OK. I snapped this pick in Hackney Downs one morning, just as he had bought us some coffees and pastries for our breakfast.

I narrowed the playlist's 92 tracks down to 10 songs released in 2023 which I love, in no particular order.Read more... )

A New Home

Jul. 26th, 2023 06:45 am
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It’s been 4 days since my dad flew back to the UK. A direct flight with British Airways, straight to his wife in Heathrow. She noticed the same thing as us: he has declined these past three months. She took him to Tesco yesterday and he complained he wanted to go home.

My mother also spends the day “wanting to go home” but calms down when I play her a Spotify playlist based on songs she loves. My dad also enjoyed it while he was here. The playlist’s cover shows my mom and I in Durbin, South Africa, 1979.

Yesterday, I took the plunge to finally leave Twitter. I’m now trying out Threads and Mastodon, though I have a sneaky suspicion it will be Bluesky where everyone ends up (though I can’t be sure as I haven’t been able to get an invite yet!)

Threads (@olliefern) has been accused of ripping off Twitter, but I find it more like Pinterest. There’s a lot of recipes, beautiful photography and inspirational quotes. Its downside is that you can’t search topics or choose to see updates exclusively by your followers.

Mastodon (@olliefern) is more promising though it looks foreboding and complicated at first. I chose a books-related server and I’ve been well received by fellow users.

Fresh starts are good things.

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I take the 30 songs from my Release Radar and the 30 songs from my Discover Weekly and put them in the Liked Songs folder.

I listen to them as I garden, cook or work on translations. I listen to them as I fall asleep.

I give them all a chance then, on the second listen, begin to Unlike. Narrowing down, narrowing down – until only the songs that Touch still stick around. Blessed are the times I find a song I truly Love, and head for the full album. They also get added to the Liked Songs folder.

And repeat.
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Sidewalk Oracles: Playing with Signs, Symbols, and Synchronicity in Everyday LifeSidewalk Oracles: Playing with Signs, Symbols, and Synchronicity in Everyday Life by Robert Moss

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

In the movie The NeverEnding Story, a boy accidentally ends up in a mysterious bookshop, where he borrows a book without the owner's knowledge. As he sits in an attic reading the book - which tells the story of a warrior on a quest in some fantastical land - he realises the book is aware of him, and speaking back to him.

My experience with this book was a little bit like that. My boyfriend gave it to me as a birthday gift because he knew I had an interest in synchronicity (or maybe the book "fell" on him in the bookstore? This is apparently a very popular "starting" point for synchronous events.) As I started reading it, a few topics discussed on its pages happened to be random topics I was already reading about elsewhere.

Robert Moss paints the world as a place filled with symbols that are waiting to speak back to us, if only we'll pay attention to them. Then, what we do with them, is a matter of how creative we want to get. Moss' style is conversational, very easy to read, and the book has plenty of exercises to activate synchronicity in your life.

I decided to play one of his games by asking my Spotify playlist a question and letting a randomly selected song give me the answer (or guide me, as Moss would say). The song that came up was Madonna's "Cherish", with lyrics which actually fit perfectly what I was asking. Just as I was listening to the song, going down Camden and paying attention to its lyrics, I walked past a young woman dressed like Madonna circa 1980s. From then onwards, other coincidences started to appear related to that song (mostly to do with the song's reference to Romeo and Juliet). I'm not really sure what it all means except, perhaps, that the universe has a sense of humor (or maybe it's just our own mind's comedic power when it focuses on something?)

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